According to the piece, the main driving force that brought cougars in from the wilderness was Hollywood. Off screen, the frenzy that surrounded Demi Moore’s marriage to Ashton Kutcher, not forgetting the widely reported liaisons of stars such as Madonna, Mariah Carey and Sandra Bullock, allegedly serve as further evidence.
Nevertheless, it somehow seems precarious to start explaining away the genuine rise in older women dating younger men by skimming off examples from LA’s amorous glitterati.
They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are. If you cannot say it in person then send a short email. We’ve had plenty experience of raising children, we don’t need to be a mommy to you. Know that many of us are quite experienced in relationships and we know how to treat a good man. We are used to having lots of space in a relationship. Hey men, if you are going to see a woman in another state for the first time, make sure you know what you are doing.
If it’s honesty and directness you are seeking, know that many older woman come out way ahead in this area. Pay for her on the first date, even if she offers to pay her share. Don’t say you want to see her again if you are full of sh*t. And don’t do it because you are looking for a mommy. Don’t keep pestering her because it will come to an unhappy conclusion or blocking you from her site. Many of us are confident, used to being alone and on our own, so don’t feel that we want to be with you every minute of the day, because we don’t. Many of us had much experience with BS and we know when it’s coming at us.
Although the US-based magazine reasoned that the cougar-craze was a fad destined for cultural oblivion, the article offered up an intriguing explanation for the newfound popularity of older woman/younger man relationships.The reasons older men dating younger women have less to do with sex and everything to do with a profound desire to reassure ourselves that we've still got "it." "It" isn't just physical attractiveness; "it" is the whole masculine package of youth, vitality, and, above all else, possibility. Age difference in relationships is no longer important as long as two people find something in common. When you make the initial contact if it is just for casual sex that you are interested in please be upfront about it to save time on both sides. Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call. If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways. Some men chase younger women as a way of making themselves feel younger or to stroke their own ego by bagging a young hottie.